Showing posts with label Letter T. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Letter T. Show all posts

Thursday, April 23, 2020

T : The Infinite Game & Siddhartha - Book Reviews #AtoZChallenge2020

The post "Books in Lockdown" was about books that the current dystopian times reminded me of. Subsequently, I wrote another books related post titled "Haruki Murakami & Other Escapes"which was about few books that I recommended as an escape from these times. But today, I am going to talk about two books, which I actually read few months back, in the period when Covid19 had just started spreading across the world. 


The Infinite Game by Simon Sinek

This one comes highly recommended. There are certain books, where you can't dispute the logic or intent, but as a reader, you constantly keep struggling with the solidity and the execution of the concepts being talked about. This book talks about how corporate leaders are conditioned to think short-term and finite, while the game being played is infinite. He provides a framework which is anchored on having a Just Cause or what I would call the purpose that should be your north star. A cause which helps build trusting teams. The author, at one point makes an interesting distinction between sports and corporate world. (While, we have been always given analogies of sports at corporate meets.) He clearly states that we should look out for worthy rivals rather than competition, like in finite sports. He tells with examples of brands like Apple, how existential flexibility, can help a brand pivot from its core product, (in this case from computers to phones, music etc.) if Just Cause is not centered around a product or a number, and courage to lead is in ample supply. 

Some cases shared are interesting. I also liked the chapter on Ethical Fading, because it seemed more tangible than others. It talks about the concept where you might follow law to the letter, but not necessarily in spirit or as per morality. But its the analogy of the Vietnam War and who really won it, that stayed back with me. 

I always find this genre of books difficult to wrap my head around. For example the Kodak and the Apple stories have been cited in so many books, using so many frameworks, that you kind of know the beats already and you also get it that in real world things don't operate that simplistically. Things work out or fail because of several variables at play. But among this genre of books, this one is far more coherent, and there is clarity of intent and writing is lucid. There are certain chapters that help you reflect on the way you look at success - both personal and professional and the way you look at team building. Also the discussion between 'legal' and 'ethical' is very interestingly put across. And thus the book is enriching in that sense. 

A line from the book which I really liked - "If the true purpose of business was only to make money, there would be no need for so many companies to pretend to be cause or purpose driven"

Siddhartha by Herman Hesse

It is a book about the spiritual journey of a man called Siddhartha during the time of Buddha. I have never read such a book before. It reads like a novel, but it is not. It is easy to read but difficult to understand and absorb. It is a book which one will have to read multiple times over one's lifetime, because takeaways from it depends on your mental state and your interpretation, at the given time of your life. As the book was originally written, in German, in simple lyrical style, I also felt that rhythm in the English translation is missing, which at times may be jarring. But one has to overcome that to really take something away from this book. 

The key themes of the book which I liked were, the totality of experience one must immerse in and the difference between 'seeking' and 'finding' . Also the fact that enlightenment can't be taught but it has to come from within is brought out beautifully through Siddhartha's journey. 

Two quotes from the book which talk about the themes I liked, are reproduced below for your delight. 

“Wisdom cannot be imparted. Wisdom that a wise man attempts to impart always sounds like foolishness to someone else ... Knowledge can be communicated, but not wisdom. One can find it, live it, do wonders through it, but one cannot communicate and teach it.”

“What could I say to you that would be of value, except that perhaps you seek too much, that as a result of your seeking you cannot find.”

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What was the last book you liked and why? Do tell me in the comments section.
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Tuesday, April 23, 2019

T : Titles & Title Songs in Hindi Films / Bollywood #AtoZChallenge 2019

Film-makers in Bollywood are crazy about numerology. They don't rely only on content of the film for its success. The title of the film is an equally important consideration. This consideration is not from the point of view of relevance though. But it is to get the mystical influence of the title right. That is Numerology 101 for dummies! This is a strange affliction but leads to several fascinating stupidly spelled film titles. 

In 2010 released a film titled "Once Upon A Time in Mumbaai". A harmless additional letter 'a' is added to Mumbai. And the film was commercially successful.  But things got weirder with its 2013 sequel titled "Once Upon Ay Time in Mumbai Dobaara". Mumbai got spelled correctly this time around, but the letter 'y' makes its presence felt at an unwanted place. Does it really make sense? By the way this sequel flopped. I think they didn't only change the spellings, but also the numerologist.



In late 2017, a film called Padmavati was supposed to release. It was based on the life of a mythical queen by the same name. Due to controversies around the film, the censor board cleared the film after suggesting several changes. One of the changes was to drop the letter 'i' from the title. This change had a logic that the story was based on an epic poem called Padmavat, written by Malik Muhammad Jayasi. But this change meant that numerology of the title got messed up. So an additional letter 'a' came to the rescue and the film finally released in early 2018 as Padmaavat. Now censor board and the government of the day was trolled for dropping the 'i' on Twitter. But nobody called out the distortion made by the film-makers.


Stupid spelling is not the only way titles get corrected from numerology point of view. Some times totally not required qualifiers are added to the title either to correct the numerology or in cases where original title is not available. Sample few: 
  • Daag - The Fire (1999 film; Daag means stain; not sure what is 'The Fire' going to do here)
  • Zanjeer - The Chain (This 1998 film gave subtitles in the title itself.; Zanjeer means Chain)
  • Ek Rishtaa : The Bond of Love (2001 film; Ek Rishta means One Relation; did you notice there is an extra 'a' in Rishta and a qualifier giving the synopsis of the film away?)
The cliches related to the titles don't end at having odd title names. There was another evergreen trend called 'Title Songs'. This trend has almost vanished in the last decade. Though this one was far more sensible. So film-makers in Bollywood used to have this one song in the film which had the title of the film in it. It resulted in some beautiful songs. Like the title song of the 2003 film Kal Ho Naa Ho (Tomorrow May Never Come)

Interestingly that was the time when Karan Johar, the producer of this film, used to have all his films' titles starting with the letter 'k'. Some fascination with numerology! And did you notice that extra 'a' in the title here?


But what happens when a trend gets used forcefully? A 1995 film titled Surakshaa (the extraa 'a' is not going to leave us aalone) also had a title song which really made no sense. The song in the situation is needless. The word Surakshaa (which means protection) is forced into the song, with no melody and rhythm in mind. To make it sound like a song, even the word Surakshaa is pronounced with additional stress on that extra 'a'. Waatch the song below!


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Monday, April 23, 2018

T : Tamil words I learned in last one year #AtoZchallenge

It is little over a year, since I started working in Chennai; and almost 8 months since I moved here with family. Recently I was having a discussion with my wife, when she mentioned that the biggest barrier for her to feel at home here, is the language. 

When we used to stay in Mumbai, we never felt compelled to speak in Marathi. We could easily get through our day with knowledge of English and Hindi there. But Chennai is a very different kind of city. It is a big city but seeped in its own regional identity. Tamil is the language which the man on the road speaks here. This makes socializing tougher for an outsider. It also makes getting some simple chores done, a herculean task - like buying vegetables, interacting with building security, getting house-help to do a particular activity. 

Also Tamil is difficult for us to learn, as we are not familiar with the language in any of its forms - written or spoken. The script for most north Indian languages is Devanagari, so even if we don't know Gujarati or Marathi, we are familiar with words written in those languages. Also many common words in these languages are same or similar sounding to Hindi. And people speak Hindi or English commonly in these places. On the other hand, Tamil is a Dravidian language, with a script very different from Devanagari, thus making it visually non-familiar to an outsider like me. As people in general, don't speak Hindi and English, it becomes difficult to learn it as well in due course, until and unless, you make special efforts like attending a class or use some other learning technique. Then the grammar of the language and importance of phonetics, also makes it tough for a newbie. Example: the Tamil words for Yes (aam), Mummy (am'ma) and Tortoise (amai) sound very similar and it is the way you stress on certain letters, changes the meaning. And while I don't fully understand the anatomy of the language, I am also given to understand that written and spoken Tamil are different too.

But we have to survive and thrive in the city we have committed a large part of our lives to, so we use multiple methods to overcome these issues:
  • Wherever possible, use digital apps - buy groceries online, book cabs / auto online etc. - This disinter-mediation helps by taking away the need of knowing the language
  • Use google translator for basic words - like we now know milk is called Pal and curd is called Tayir - It is inconvenient, but saying few words in Tamil, makes things nicer for an outsider and people are more willing to help
  • Take help from colleagues, neighbors and friends who know Tamil to talk to those whom you can't talk with
  • Actually learn few basic words of Tamil. Had it been any other language, I would have developed basic proficiency by now, given the efforts I have put in. But I am finding Tamil really tough. Here is the list of few words/categories of words, that I am now very comfortable with. This is not necessarily a complete list of words I have learnt, but some, which help me get by. 


Start from basics

The words you assimilate when you are trying to learn to tell people that you are not really proficient in Tamil. 

Tamil Teriyum - Know Tamil
Tamil Teriyatu - Don't know Tamil
Ventam - Do not
Aam - Yes
Illai - No
Chumma (its sounds like Hindi word for kiss) - Just like that
I - Nan

Did you notice, how saying "No" in different contexts, changes the word from Teriyatu to Ventam to Illai. I am still not sure how to use them comfortably.

Conscious effort to learn basics

First set of words that you learn with effort - like salutations, relationships, numbers, food items, basic questions/answers to talk to taxi drivers etc.

Vanakkam - Hello
Nanri Nanpa - Thank You Friend
Am'ma - Mummy
Appa - Papa
Akka - Sister
Anna - Elder Brother
Tampi (Thambi) - Brother, usually younger
Maplai - Groom (Context, Jamai in Hindi)
Nanpa - Friend
Cappatu, Saapadu - Meals / Food
Pal  - Milk, Tayir - Curd, Satam / Saadham - Rice, Tengai / tenkay - Coconut, Tanni / Neer - Water, Illanir - Coconut Water
Eppati Irrukinka - How are you | Nalla Irukken - I'm good
Enke Irrukinka - Where are you | Nan Inke Irukken - I'm here
Pujyam, Onnu, Rendu, Muunu, Naalu, Anju, aaru - 0,1,2,3,4,5,6 (Yes, I have been able to learn till six only. Also the 'u' at the end of each number is not pronounced like 'ooooh' in Himesh Reshamiya songs. I am yet to get the hang of how to pronounce that 'u' properly. A safe bet is don't stress on 'u' at the end of each number at all.)

Just keep in mind, learning these words / numbers don't ensure you can really make others understand things. Because each word in English has multiple synonyms in Tamil, but they have to be used very particularly when put in a sentence. But these help to break the ice.

Let us move to few basic phrases (I am limiting to those I can recall now)

The phrases which spell some action. These are for practice with those kind souls who can tolerate your bad pronunciation.

Pokalam / Pollam  - Let's go
Capitallam / Saapadalam - Let's eat
Cirikate / Srikadhe - Don't laugh
Moraikadhe - Don't stare

Clearly the way these phrases are written and the way they are spoken are different. That explains why I am writing each Tamil phrase with a slash followed by an option. The post slash word is the way I have been taught to speak. Did you also notice, that 'kadhe' also means No in this context, adding to the list of ways of saying No. Aren't things becoming more complex?

Tough ones / Bad ones

When I reached phrases in the above section, I had almost given up hope to learn Tamil. But then I thought at least I should learn some bad words.

Poda Venkayam / Pota Venkayam - Useless onion (I don't know how it is a profanity, but seemingly it works)
Enkita Vachukita Konduduven - Don't mess with me or I will kill you (Yes, this is what I am being taught in lieu of cuss words)
Dei naaye Kolaikadhey - Hey (dei) dog (naaye) don't (kadhey) bark (kolai) (At least this can work for school kids)
Dei kosu Kadikadheey - Hey mosquito(kosu)  don't bite (kadi) (Back to kindergarten)

Do you realize that people speaking Tamil get offended by simple profanities? They don't need big guns from Punjabi like MC / BC at all. Or they didn't teach me. I may have to take classes from someone who is good in Teru / Tharai Local (Local Street Slang).

*Disclaimer - Wherever I have written Tamil in English Alphabet, I have taken help from people who taught me these words or Google to write spellings. The logic used is to be as close as possible to way they are spoken. But given the complexity of the language, there might be errors in spelling. Please bear. 

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My last year's challenge post from letter T was about Train Rides and one particular memorable one. Read it here.

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My theme for this year's #AtoZchallenge is all about writing stories, anecdotes and observations from my life in form of easy to read listicles. You can read the theme reveal post here.




Monday, April 24, 2017

T : Trains

Low cost airlines changed forever, how middle class Indians used to travel. 

I took my first flight ever in 2005. SpiceJet, Mumbai - Delhi with a stop-over at Ahmedabad. I remember nothing else of it. I remember then taking a bus from Delhi airport to ISBT to catch a ST bus to Ludhiana. That bus journey like always, took me through several cities over 6-7 hours. Sights. Sounds. Smells. Flights sound boring. 

Trains and buses have a certain romanticism associated to them. If time was not an issue, I would always prefer a train journey over a flight. If I remember correctly, I have traveled only 5 times on train since my first flight. 

I would have never known Upma / Vada (south Indian delicacies), if it was not a standard breakfast in trains. Trains help us connect with and know about diverse cultures of India. 

As a young boy, I used to get thrilled by getting down on station platforms on the way to a far flung destination. So for a long time, when I had never actually visited Baroda or Surat, I knew these towns by their stations. I always thought Shreekhand (sweet food item from Gujarat) was something special to these places. I always used to tell friends that I have been to Surat and Baroda and other such places, because I had set foot on their train platforms. Though never actually visited many of them, till recently.

I have traveled in sleeper class, in general compartments and in AC compartments. In the same train, people behave differently in these different compartments. Once traveling from Ambala to Lucknow, I had to sleep on train floor using newspapers as my sheet, among shoes of other travelers. It was a sleeper class, so people adjusted. This wouldn't have been possible in AC section. Sitting by the loo on your bag, in general compartment, where there were no reserved seats, made me value the physical space we are privileged to have in our lives. Every time you travel in AC compartment, there will always be two - three groups drinking liquor in cahoots with the TC and pantry boys who serve best snacks for them.

Train travel definitely adds to your world view and perspective. I will always remember one particular journey. We were returning from Ujjain after winning a national debating competition. Being winners, many people approached us and we made lot of friends in those three days. Few girls from Jammu, gave our team of two boys, special attention. Incidentally, we all were traveling back to our homes in Jammu Tawi express. It was a fun journey back, with all of us playing games and talking about stuff in general. I made friends with S. (Never asked her last name). We talked about changing India and things like that. Young, idealistic and idle minds. It was supposed to be a one day journey from Ujjain to Ludhiana,but things were to go wrong. The entire northern India grid failure happened on that eventful day of 2001. Our electric train got stranded in middle of nowhere. With no mobile phones then, communication was not like today's. We waited for 8 hours in that godforsaken place. The friendships strengthened.  Next day early morning, around 4 am, we reached Ludhiana. S and her friends were in deep sleep. We were not sure, about saying goodbye to them, after waking them up. We never did. I often wonder, what would have they felt about it. We had exchanged our email ids. After many months she wrote me a mail and I replied back. But then, in rush of life, we never communicated again. Train rides provide that calmness, that time to build bonds. 

If you are in chaos, take some time off and hop on a train.